
I know there really is never a good excuse for losing touch with someone you care about, and I admittedly am guilty of not being the initiator in many of these situations where you have to make a conscious effort to stay in contact. What is absolutely horrible though is that more often than not my lack of contact is
no reflection of how I feel about them.
I'm afraid I'm a bit of an awkward person as I am outgoing, yet shy; extremely caring, yet reserved. Now that I live over five hours from some of my best friends, I know I need to make even more of a conscious effort to be the one calling to get the latest dirt and making sure I'm up to speed on their life. And at the end of the day, there are
no excuses... you should make time for those that mean the most to you.
I am not a person who forges friendships on a whim; because of this, I have a few select friends and I would do anything for them. There is not one day that goes by that each and every one of them doesn't cross my mind and I either laugh (out loud), which may or may not cause an awkward situation if others are present, or at very least smile remembering how wonderful they each are.
So, my piece of advice for the day?
Make time; no excuses.